A guy friend of mine that I don’t see very often invited me over to his new place in Echo Park one Friday night. He had just moved to Echo Park and had two good-looking male roommates so obvi I was down. The place was cool, it was clearly a dudes place, but cool nonetheless. We had a few drinks and my friend mentioned walking down the street to his new neighbors house that was having a party that night. A walking distance party? I am so there, duh. I asked my friend how he had met his new neighbor friend and he said “Oh we were just checking out the neighborhood earlier today and this dude invited us to his party tonight”, what a friendly fella, I thought to myself. The group of us walked over to the house to a raging party. Not. There were less than 10 people there and 80% of them were either playing or watching people play Guitar Hero. It all comes full circle now. Immediately upon walking in, this tall/dark/Ian Somerhalder-esque man (btw- hockey player reminded me of IS too, but not as much as this guy) comes up and greets my friend. Is this the neighbor?? I was already in love. He was very friendly, kinda goofy, and over informative. He casually told us the point of the party was to celebrate his recent break-up/GF moving out (BAD SIGN #1- I just want to keep track of how many bad signs there were in this situation that I just chose to ignore). Neat, a break-up “party”, love those. We hung out there for a while and there wasn’t really much else that was notable about the night except for when Ian Somerhalder announced “EVERYONE ADD ME ON FACEBOOK- _____ _____” Insert his first and last name in the blank spaces (BAD SIGN #2). Classy, and not desperate at all. I added him the next day. The little red notification icon with a “1” in it popped up less than 10 minutes later- he had accepted. Within 2 minutes of that, I had a message. It read:
“Have we met? Were you at my party? You are a QT”
I knew he was joking, kinda, (with the spelling of “QT”) but it would have been absolutely unacceptable if he were being serious. Sooo I guess that meant he didn’t remember our conversation about 2-buck-Chuck and his recent break-up (BAD SIGN #3, just keepin’ track y’all). I reminded him of our chat and he still didn’t seem to remember… okay. Nonetheless, he suggested I come over. “Right now?” I asked. Yes, that is indeed what he meant. It was a work night and I was too sleepy but I suggested later in the week. In the next few days he asked every night, without fail. I really did want to see him but I didn’t want to have to limit myself to a short hangout sesh (I was working long hours). I finally agreed to come over, I think on a Thursday. Oh another thing I forgot to mention, he was a “cyclist”- Ok… what’s up with that? I get it you like to ride your fucking bike but just because you don’t have a car, calling yourself a cyclist doesn’t make your situation sound better. YOU JUST DON’T HAVE A CAR ASSHOLE. (BAD SIGN #4).
I got to his place at the time we agreed to (wine in tow, since he asked me to bring it- but he swore he would pay me back- BAD SIGN #5) and he wasn’t there (BAD SIGN #6). He ended up being around 20 minutes late and showed up sweaty and all biked out. We went inside and he told me he was going to take a quick shower… UHH OK? At this point I debated just up and leaving. But I decided to stay- just to see what would happen, for the story. Post shower, he began drinking with me, in his underwear. Oh, also forgot to mention he cleaned his living room before the shower, but he was kind enough to start me out with the wine I brought while I sat and watched (BAD SIGN #7). Date of the year, ladies and gentlemen. After one bottle was empty, he magically became a lot more appealing to me. We liked all of the same music and… he looked like Ian Somerhalder. Yeah, I guess that’s all it takes. We broke into another bottle of wine and the level of appeal went up even more. At one point we were standing really close to each other, face to face. I don’t remember what we were talking about the conversation was inappropriate for a kiss. He leaned in anyway. He was great kisser, I think it was part of his crazy psyche. He walked toward his bedroom and pulled my hand to follow. He laid face down on his bed and I just stood there. I was kind of and awkward position to take at that point and time. I sat down next to him and he started saying something and I realized he was slurring, majorly. He was completely wasted. How did this happen? I thought we had had equal amounts of wine and I wasn’t THAT much of a lush. Weird. After a few minutes of slurring he stood up and could barely walk. He stumbled to his bathroom and slammed the door shut once inside. He began violently puking and I could hear it all too well. Jesus, how the fuck was I in a situation like this? After he seemed to be done I tried to knock on the door and see if he was alright. He opened it a crack but wasn’t verbally responsive. I peeked in and he was LAYING on the ground. He slurred something about being okay even though he clearly was not. I stayed there for another hour or so, TOO LONG, only because I was worried. He too had work the next morning and had mentioned something about having to wake up at 5am, yikes. By the time I left he was completely passed out and I couldn’t wake him up. He was breathing though, good sign. I texted him once I got home saying I hoped he was alive (1/2 joking-1/2 serious). By 7am he hadn’t responded- what the fuck? I was legitimately worried. I drove to work and when I got there he had texted me…
“Tonight… round 2?”